21 Questions to aks an open guy when you are on your first date

Questions are the most interesting thing that we can come up with when we want to learn about someone else.

Dale Carnegie in his timeless best selling book, "How to win friends and influence people" shares about the power of asking interesting questions to show that we are interested in someone else.

Have you been to a party and been the one asking all the questions and doing all the listening? If you have, you will probably agree that the other person thought that the conversation was quite interesting. You probably did less that 20% of the speaking but you got 100% of the credit!

If you 're a guy and ask a lady some great questions, you will often find yourself jumping to last-base, saving a lot of time trying to build rapport with her. Asking questions and really listening to what a person says is one of the most naturally flattering things you can do with anyone.

If you are a lady and want to stroke a guy’s ego and make him feel good then ask lots of interesting questions and then listen to the answers. You will have the guy on a string from there on!

Despite the ego-focused side of asking and listening there is a genuine side as well. Because people who're genuinely interested in someone else, are the people who are usually popular and well liked. Faking interest is the worst thing you can do. And at the end of the day, if you are not a natural listener then put yourself to the test and practice. You will start to learn SO much about so many things and you will discover parts of people that are just SO interesting to learn about.

Here's 21 questions to ask to get conversation moving. They have been written from a female perspective, just switch them around if you are a guy and want to use them. If nothing else it will get you thinking about your own questions - which are always better.

Here are 21 questions to ask a guy or a girl

1. If you’re a waiter and a customer was super rude, would you spill food accidentally on them or think about oing this?

2. What was your favourite cartoon character as a kid and why did you enjoy them?

3. If you could choose to have dinner with 5 people (real of fictional) who would you invite and why?

4. If you could become the invisible man, where would you go and what would you do when you got there?

5. If someone was to make a comedy movie about just one part of your life, which part would they script and what would be written?

6. What has been the most unusualexperience in your whole entire life?

7, What was your favourite television character when you were a child? What did you like about them?

8. What do you regret the most in your life?

9. Have you ever gone on a date with someone who is so much taller or smaller than you, and if so how did you get on kissing?

10. What age were you when you had your first proper date and did you get to kiss them?

11. What was the worst lie you have ever told in your life? Did you get caught out?

12. If you were suddenly turned into a woman for a day, how would you spend that day?

13. If you do not like someone do you show it or pretend that you like them?

14. What is more important to you in a woman - good looks or intelligence?

Time to get a little more personal! Maybe you should wait till you have had a few more drinks before asking some of these!

15. Have you ever been caught with your pants down in a public place - if so what were you doing?

16. What’s the difference between having sex and making love for you and which do you prefer?

17. If you could suddenly change the age you lost your virginity, would you?

18. Has anyone ever caught you touching yourself sexually? If they did what did you do?

19. What turns you on the most?

20. Have you ever serial sex - with one person and then been with a differnet person somewhere else within the same day?

21. Were you ever unfaithful with your partner? If so did they find out and if so what did they do?

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